Alyson Debates The Problems of Adolescence on TVO's The Agenda

I was invited to participate in a panel discussion on TVO's The Agenda with host Steve Paikin.  The subject was Dr Robert Epstein's book "The Case Against Adolescence".   His premise, which he supports with science, is that adolescence is a cultural creation, not a biological fact, and that we infatalize our young adults. He argues ( and I totally agree) that the turmoil, rebellion, and angst of adolesence is cause by our inablity to recognize their abilities. He suggests that instead of age, a mere number, we should look to ability and competencies when giving people rights and freedoms. 

Here is the show if you care to watch the discussion. 

Comments

[Amy Brown]

Did you see that reality show, "Kid Nation"? It was contrived, like all reality shows, but basically they threw a bunch of kids from ten to sixteen in a "wild west town" without any adults and got them to make a society. They kept setting up these kids with idiotic decisions where there was an obviously stupid choice and a sensible one, and the kids without fail chose the sensible choice. They were generally so thoughtful and helpful and mature (with a few exceptions, but some people never grow up, at 13 or 33). I thought it was a lovely illustration of how teens are generally sensible people who know what the right thing is and are happy to do it.

I haven't read the adolescence book but I just ordered it from the library. My kids are 2 and 4 so I have a while to read it... (I guess the library might want it back sooner, though.)

[Julie]

Alyson,
I just saw The Agenda debate. That was awesome. I saw a lot of your parenting suggestions covered. You were/are, as usual, totally on the money.

Giving kids and 'young adults' responsibilities - taking the time for training. How it builds their self esteem through learning that they are competent. How schools can take the joy out of learning. How our children can grow up to feel entitled if we prevent them from becoming contributors. How we need to have relationships about mutual respect.

You were awesome ! I really enjoyed it.